In truth, the Dark Seldarine were a pantheon only in a loose sense as most drow gods did not allow their followers to give any reverence to other deities rather, they were simply a collection of gods, some related to each other and some not, whose followers were primarily drow, and thus they were bitter rivals as they clashed over the hearts and minds of the drow. Lolth considered him her real rival and enemy. He had the largest following on the surface and the second largest overall among the Dark Seldarine.
Vhaeraun, her son, was among the opposers. She was opposed to varying degrees by the rest of the pantheon and did not share her power with other gods in Lolth-worshiping city states like Menzoberranzan the reign of her priesthood was absolute. She dominated the drow race's lives and urged them into heavy infighting. The Dark Seldarine, the pantheon of the drow, was 'led' by Lolth, the Spider Queen, in the sense that she was the most powerful and widely worshiped drow deity.